You’re an overachiever who never thinks anything you do is quite good enough. You’re hard on yourself. You’re your own worst critic. Everything needs to be perfect, especially your food choices and your body. You’re a black-or-white thinker. There is no in-between.
You’re either:
Stuck in the hell hole of restriction (anorexia, orthorexia) and can’t get out. Your entire life revolves around restriction, exercise compulsion, and OCD. You’re living in constant anxiety and fear.
Or going through hellish cycles of restricting, bingeing, and purging (or not purging). You “fall off the wagon,” go into “fuck it” mode, and eat all the banned foods to excess. You can’t stop when you’re full. You promise yourself you’ll stick to it this time, and you mean it with every cell of your being… until the cravings hit and you cave again.
The more diets you fail, the less you trust yourself. You seem to have completely lost your ability to restrict.
Victoria Kleinsman
I work with high-achieving women who usually smash their goals in every area of life. If you were called average, it would be the biggest insult of all. You’re a perfectionist and you won’t settle for anything less. When you commit to something, you go all in. You’re in it to win it. Otherwise, what’s the point?
Others might call you obsessed or extreme. You call it commitment.
I often work with women in professional careers who carry deep shame around their eating disorder and are experts at putting on a mask for the world. You’ve got your shit together everywhere else. Except this.
I don’t work with people who want to be coddled. I work with people who want to be free.
I don’t sugarcoat things. My job is to help, not to please. I’ll likely be the only brutally honest person in your life who tells you what you need to hear and shows you what you can’t see for yourself.
And if you don’t fully believe you can recover when you come to me… that’s fine. I’ll believe for both of us until you do too. In fact, my vision for your freedom will often be greater than your own.
Victoria Kleinsman
Working with me will be one of the best decisions you’ll ever make, and I don’t say that lightly.
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